上了大學才知道...

上了大學才知道...
01.上了大學才知道，兩個天天在一起的人不一定是朋友，有可能什麽都不是。
02.上了大學才知道，從來不要和別人爭論什麽，因為那是沒有結果的，無論誰對誰錯。
03.上了大學才知道，手機是有事的時候用的，並不是為了交流感情。
04.上了大學才知道，真心對一個人好不一定有回報，而你忽略的人往往有可能是最重視你的。
05.上了大學才知道，很多東西是可遇而不可求的，很多東西你只能擁有一次。
06.上了大學才知道，戀愛不一定是真心的，有可能是利益關系，有可能是攀比心理。
07.上了大學才知道，原來中學老師………教的是那麽好，那麽負責任。

08.上了大學才知道，很多時候自己遇到不開心事，千萬不要渴望別人同情，大多數人會采取冷漠回敬的。那樣會更讓人家看不起。
09.上了大學才知道，有很多東西是不屬於你的，你使勁強求會遭天遣的。
10.上了大學才知道，生活是有很多不公平的，你一定要正視，相信實力和群眾的眼睛。
11.上了大學才知道，人的性格可以差異到如此之大。
12.上了大學才知道，一個人要自己對自己好，因為真正關心你的人很少，有了事他們也不一定會在你身邊。所以要自己照顧自己。
13.上了大學才知道，課程會在你不經意間，拉下很多，期末考試前不一定能補回來。
14.上了大學才知道，錢用的是那麽快，用錢的地方是那麽多。
15.上了大學才知道，從現在開始應該把握每一個你能把握的人，放棄你留不住的人，不要因為想留住個別人而失去一群人。
16.上了大學才知道，自己一定在乎自己的自尊，因為你的自尊在別人眼裏根本不算什麽。
17.上了大學才知道，不要心情不好的時候對周圍人發脾氣，渴望他們諒解你，人家不是你的父母，現在你可以明白父母對自己多麽重要。
18.上了大學才知道。即便有人對情感看的無所謂，你一定要堅信，人之間的感情，有可能會令所有東西無法超越的，但記住，只是有可能。
19.上了大學才知道，會遇到許多自己看不慣的人或事，但那與你無關，別人愛咋整隨他便，別生不該生的氣，不值。
20.上了大學才知道，許多曾經的人會變的讓你認不出，但請留住回憶。
21.上了大學才知道，會遇到很多誘惑，無論別人怎麽樣，你是你，你有你的原則和底限。
22.上了大學才知道，會有人很討厭你或者和你過不去，但是他愛怎麽樣就怎麽樣，我們要大度，不和小人計較，但前提是你正確。
23.上了大學才知道，很多人無法理解男女之間的朋友關系，在一起就一定是戀人，不是戀人就一定不能在一起。
24.上了大學才知道，學習要刻苦，因為憑聰明就能應付大學科目的人是風毛翎角。
25.上了大學才知道，原來時間一空閑下來是那麽無聊，絲毫沒有中學的充實的感覺。
26.上了大學才知道，太在乎別人了往往會傷害自己。
27.上了大學才知道，對自己好的人會隨著時間的流逝越來越少。
28.上了大學才知道，可以不把所有人當朋友，但千萬不能把一個人當敵人，至少可以當同學。
29.上了大學才知道，玩你能玩的起的，玩不起的千萬別玩，不然會輸的什麽都沒有的。
30.上了大學才知道，快樂常常來自回憶，而痛苦常常來自於回憶與現實的差距。
31.上了大學才知道，原來上課，吃飯，上自習常常得自己一個人。
32.上了大學才知道，有很多人的想法與做法你無法理解，或是根本不知道他在想什麽，千萬別在那揣摩或者瞎猜，那樣會讓自己累，既然人家要保持神秘感那就讓人家保持去啊，自己又不是占星師。
33.上了大學才知道，每個人都是帶有“地方特色”的。
34.上了大學才知道，別人請客吃飯或著自己請別人吃飯都是很平常的，甚至請一個不怎麽熟的人都是有可能的
35.上了大學才知道，每個人都是認為自己的家鄉最好，無論他的家鄉貧窮或富裕。

New Arena

Before this, I used to be a president of XXX club and YYY club in high school time, and I held lots important positions also. I shall say the leadership during that period and now are different- which makes me need to change myself to fit in thou.  THE MAIN DISTINGUISHED between previous leadership and now (council): - 

1. Programme planning vs programme planning + LINKING
2. Communicate to committes and members vs Communicate to and for your department + communicate between departments
3. Speaking in front of members vs speaking in front of all the GENG ppl

Programme Planning +Linking

Leadership in high school is more on leading the members and committees to carry on meeting until it fulfilled al the meetings which required by the school or GB. And it focuses more on programme planning only, as long as it attracts the members and keeps their spirits.We are more on serving like customer service as well as lead as a leader to motivate them. Besides planning programme to the members of the department, we need to link the students to the department as well as department to the students. Linking job is not easy. It's like when you do assignment, it is easy to state all the points out, but when your lecturer asks you to link all your points and present it out--> You scratch your head. Because there is definitely some outlier. However, as the vice president of the psychology council, I should and cannot ignore them no matter how non-sense it is. I need to find ways to communicate to them politely.

Communicate to & for Your Department + Communicate between Departments

Communication is a hard bit too. We should know when to speak or not, as usual. As a department's representative, I need to voice out for my department in the Student Representative Council meeting. This is a great challenge for me because whatever I decide and say on the spot will influence not only me but my department; in the mean time, I can't just keep quiet throughout the meeting also. Another challenge of stepping into this new arena is I need to say inspiring things and words to encourage others (i.e. committees and juniors). Due to my personality, I wish to encourage others but I find that my words are not inspiring enough. How??? @@ Another thing, my English proficiency- the thing I worry also. 

Speaking in front of all the GENG ppl

Speaking in front of 1000 members and speaking in front of all the clubs' presidents, graduates, as well as all the department's heads is totally diff. As metaphor, I wasn't fear of a single thing when I spoke in front of few hundred members during my high school time; however, I'm fear when I am in the the meeting with all the 9 council's presidents. HEY GIE!! Be confident kay :) 

I've learnt a lot and met lots challenges during the process of shifting my leadership from a club to a council and  department's representative. 

BUT I KNOW I CAN ROCK THIS OUT!!! :D