Man vs Gentleman

Speaking from girls,

why girls like gentlemen? This is because we feel safe when we are with them; besides those pulling chair action. For instance, it was 11pm and my car parked quite a distance from the restaurant. At first, he offered to fetch me and another girl, but then I realized my car was just really near just that we needed to cross over a bridge which is bit dark, quiet, and scary. Then, the guy [zhao jun] was very gentleman to offer accompany us cross over the bridge. I can really tell you that it warms female's heart especially when we are worried and scared.

Unlike man who knows how to speak YET do = nothing. That is really..... ehem. Disappointed. No matter you're male or female, please put your thoughts to actions rather than words *make sure the thoughts are positive wan la of coz... BECAUSE ACTIONS ALWAYS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!! :) Im looking forward to his plan hehe :p

This is too over~!

I thought it will be better if I finish my mid term, but in fact, this starts the nightmare. Psychology test is already enough to stress me out and pull me down. Ya, it should be the time of relaxing and relieving. BUT, deadline for research paper is just at the corner, which means that I have NO TIME TO REST and continue to strike to finish my advance english, critical thinking, and psychology research papersssssss and each has the presentation also. Besides that, the tourism trip freaks me out TOO. With the fiesta also :x all the proposals, calls, prices and etc etc.

WHAT THE CRAP man, my whole july will be stress of these stuff. Although I am strong but these are too over. I need some time to breathe, but time does not allow. What can I do now????

-praying to God for wisdom, good time management, and stress management-

My wish now

What do I wish now besides having good results in my studies?

it's a puppy :)

I used to not understand why people love dogs, although they're cute. Now, I really understand it. With my sensitive nose, it will be an obstacle but I really wish to have one. However, the "bubu" problem is another matter; I will settle that with my bro if i have one :)

My choices are:- these two, but I do not know what's their brand names

once, I dreamed someone gave me a puppy as my bday present; although I did not rmb who is the person in my dream, I still wish it will come true :D doggie

Words from female

女人最需要的九種安全感

一個女人的幸福感往往與安全感是聯繫在一起的。所以，一個男人，如果你能讓對方有安全感，那麽你的感情就成功了大半。
很多時候男人們都沒有搞懂一件事情，女人要的就是安全感，所以她才肯跟著你，為你洗衣做飯，一輩子守在你身邊不離不棄。但是，安全感畢竟太虛無飄渺，可能不少男人又會鬱悶——我怎麽知道怎麽樣她才有安全感？尤其是現在的都市女性，看了太多的悲歡離合，安全感似乎成為奢侈品。一個女人的幸福感往往與安全感是聯繫在一起的。所以，一個男人，如果你能讓對方有安全感，那麽你的感情就成功了大半。

1.要懂得尊重女方
不要太多地干涉對方的選擇，最好鼓勵她發展自己的專長，因為每個人都是一樣的，如果做的是自己不喜歡的東西，是不會有激情和幹勁的，你覺得好，未必她認為就是最適合自己的。現代好男人的一條重要標準是，尊重所有的女性，包括僅有一面之緣的人。

2.溫暖的肢體接觸
為何女人都愛挽男人的手？因為這樣親密，讓人感覺踏實。人其實都有身體的接觸欲望，男人女人都一樣。掌心、懷抱的溫暖，是最令女人印象深刻的，遠比什麽鑽石更能記住一輩子。她一般在想起你時，都多半是想起你的懷抱，所以，不要吝惜擁抱和十指交纏。

3.適時的噓寒問暖
關心體貼每個女人都很受落，但是過分的關心只會讓她不勝其煩。她苦惱的時候你好好充當垃圾桶的角色就可以了。有時女人需要的，只是一個能夠訴說的物件，說完了就釋放出來了，並不一定要求結果。儘量記住她和你提過的朋友的名字，在她遇到困境時，給予你能想到的最好的建議。

4.讓她的家人朋友都欣賞你
長輩們實在是厲害，眼睛超毒，如果你能贏得她家人、朋友的欣賞，簡直就打通了一半。因為女人通常都很容易被身邊的人影響，有讚賞你的人，在很多事情上你都會得到很多幫助。

5.儘量做到胸襟開闊、寬容忍讓
雖然現在很多男人因為原先在家就是小太陽，事事要求公平，但是，畢竟女人需要哄，所以請不要太意氣用事，如果不是涉及原則，先讓步，只有讓你們的矛盾平和下來，兩人才能冷靜下來，再尋求一個解決方法。

6.善待對方的寵物
女人們都覺得，喜歡小動物的男人心地善良，能照顧好寵物，肯定也會照顧好自己的家人。如果你實在不喜歡小動物，但是你也不要表現得太明顯，可以以婉轉溫和的方式告訴她，你對毛髮過敏之類的理由比較容易被接受。

7.要有運動愛好
有某種運動愛好的男人，較容易找到情緒的出口，你讓她感覺到是和一個心中有熱情的男人在一起，會讓她對生活充滿信心。我想，沒有一個女人喜歡和只愛喝酒發泄的男人整天生活在一起吧。

8.讓她覺得向你傾訴是安全的
如果一個女人能開誠佈公地與你溝通，說明你在她心中是有一定地位的。但是你最好懂得什麽時候該說話，什麽時候該閉嘴。不要害怕表達，可以適當地和她分享你的感受和想法，這樣她會覺得你是站在她這邊的，內心就會更加依靠你。要讓她確信，你不會因為她表達出內心想法而嘲笑她。

9.搞清楚和女性朋友的分界
無論男女，都應該有自己的朋友圈子，但是玩曖昧的男人肯定是讓女人最為痛恨的。如果你對別的女人不好意思拒絕，那麽，遲早她就會毫不可惜地拒絕你。說是虛榮心也好、沒安全感也罷，總之，她們都希望自己的男人能始終出現在自己的視線當中、聽力範圍內。你可以讓她知道你來往的朋友是誰，但是你們可以事先溝通好，大家可以在信任的基礎上互相給對方空間。適當的時候，給點甜蜜的話吧，很多時候，女人就受你這一套。

Brains for different gender

Just studied my psychology which chapter 2 is about brain. During rest time, I found this in facebook, but it might not be exactly true ya... just smile :)

It's back

The feeling came back [ the bad feeling which distracts me from studying yet dont know what to do and just sitting there doing nothing and having all sorts of day dream] . I had this feeling long time ago, which really describes the word 吃不安，坐不乐. I used to think that is just what will happen in the drama, but IT ACTUALLY HAPPENS IN REAL LIFE!

I really wish something happens to me and make me cry as much as I want to release it out rather than now, happy life which unable to trigger me for crying. I just feel like crying now, but I CANT! what can I do? slap myself???

Friends who understand me will know what I want in a hidden meaning :) It's okay if you dun get it, it proves that we need more them to get to know each other *wink

AND i just realized one thing, I slowly understand what is LOVE and it defines VERY differently from what I defined last time; However the deeper I understand, the more I think I am not ready for it.... cause it requires lots of things and sacrifices. We've grown up, so no more puppy love :)

Some updates

Stress makes me FAT!!! *coz i will eat a lot when im stress
haizzzz. no choice la... just go hiking more lor~~~

this actually happened last week, but I was so lazy to blog...

a MINI gathering between my chinese girl's gang :p [ lol, so many gang gang]

BTW, the X MEN is pretty interesting and cool!!
I wish Im part of them :)

and thanks lots for accompany me shopping shopping

then i went adidas run at night

- waiting for pic and will update the details later-

Selena Gomez & The Scene - Naturally

everything comes naturally :)

Currently....

Actually I am pretty lazy to write blog now, but the feeling triggers me after I read someone else's blog. What should I say? Everyday study for exam and do research for term paper. As my lecturer said, if you are going to do degree in psychology, the APA format will always on your finger tips. Even though now, I already face all the APA everyday, soooooo ya, it is my boyfren now till my degree. haizzzzz what to do? no choice la or else will be counted as plagiarism

NEXT week is mid term already, and thanks Jim for reminding me when is the due date for term paper LOL, or else... i cant imagine what will happen to my term paper.

Some people are talking about couple and so on, but sorry la~~ First, I dun have any FEEL to anyone. Secondly, I already busy to the highest level... got time also sleep la XDDDD

Gb stuff, hmmmm... taking leave now~~so, I will not care much . Currently letting Joanne to in charge :) hope she will learn something within that period. I will do my PVP during free time. Oh ya, I still got GBSL practical work to do. Ish~~ let me settle my studies first :)

Wow~~ I am kinda suprise with my level of resisting stress now. Coz so far, I din really feel suffer although there are TONES of things come at one time. Just the event managing will be bit sam fu coz "some" people are not active, they just sit there and wait for the outcome....

hmmm , I really feel GLAD that I've been trained up in high school to in charge all these events and stresses. It makes me who I am now. OK!!! study time :D Bye~~~

LOL ignore me XD

asm = assignment

r.p. = research paper

t.p. = term paper

e.m. = event management

Semestar 2!!!!! is killing me *literally*

week 7

mon to fri - STUDY!!!!!

fri - visit burnese home

sat - mis term

week 8

MID TERM >.<

week 9

sat - bukit jalil perform

sun - GB fund Raising

week 10

HAND IN ENG T.P.

week 11

psy presentation + study tour

week 12

F&B fiesta + captain wedding

week 13

english presentation

week 14

STUDY!!!!!

week 15

FINAL